Wealden Funeral Services share some ideas for alternative funeral celebrations
14th April
Funerals can be as personal as you want, reflecting the life of the loved one
“When we think of funerals here in Wealden, alternative funerals stand out in our memories. A traditional image might come to mind: a hearse, a church or crematorium, and perhaps a wake at the local pub, but times are changing, and for many, a more personalised and alternative approach feels like a more fitting farewell,” commented Andy Kirk, Wealden Funeral Services.
Just as every life is unique, so too can the way we say goodbye.
Drawing inspiration from Wealden Funeral Services’ compassionate ethos and considering the broader landscape of funeral options available throughout the UK, we can take a look at ways to create a personalised send-off for your loved one.
Locations with a Personal Touch
While crematoria and cemeteries are vital, consider places with special significance for the deceased. Did they love the outdoors? A woodland burial site provides a serene and natural final resting place. It often features biodegradable coffins and the option of a tree or wildflowers as a memorial. Picture a tranquil ceremony among the trees, with birdsong providing the soundtrack.
Perhaps they had a favourite beauty spot. Although a formal service may not be feasible everywhere, a memorial gathering at a significant location after a cremation or burial can be a lovely way to celebrate one’s life. Imagine a picnic by the sea, a gathering in their cherished garden, or even a remembrance walk in the countryside they adored. Some more unusual venues are also opening their doors to funeral gatherings, from football stadiums for the avid supporter to museums for the culturally inclined.
Hearses That Reflect a Life
The traditional black hearse is a dignified choice but not the only option. A more unique vehicle can serve as a poignant tribute to someone with a passion.
When thinking about alternative funerals it important to focus on the person we are saying goodbye to. Imagine a motorcycle hearse for a bike enthusiast, a Land Rover hearse for someone who cherished the countryside, or a classic car for a vintage lover. A bicycle hearse provides a gentle, environmentally friendly alternative for a genuinely eco-conscious farewell. How about a tractor and trailer combination for the many farmers among us? Or, for those who have never moved on from Woodstock and the memories of their youth – a VW Camper van.
For animal lovers, a horse-drawn hearse, with its stately elegance, can add a touch of traditional charm with a twist. For someone with a playful spirit, a brightly coloured vehicle or a themed design would be a fitting choice.
The choice now is vast, and something can be found to meet your wishes.
Coffins that Make a Statement
For those seeking a more personal farewell, the options for alternative coffins have flourished, providing a genuine opportunity to reflect on a life lived differently. Beyond the traditional wooden casket, a diverse range of eco-friendly choices is now available. These include coffins crafted from sustainable materials such as willow, bamboo, and banana leaves, designed to biodegrade naturally, thereby lessening their environmental impact.
Furthermore, printed and themed coffins are readily available for a truly unique memorial. These allow families to celebrate the individual’s passions and personality. Whether it’s a coffin adorned with favourite flowers, a beloved pet, the colours of a sporting team or band, or even a custom photograph, these options provide a vibrant and memorable tribute. This move towards more personalised and environmentally conscious choices ensures that saying goodbye can be as individual as remembering life.
Beyond the Traditional Service
Alternative funerals should be just as unique as the individual. Humanist or non-religious funerals are increasingly popular, focusing on celebrating the person’s life without any religious elements. They may be conducted by a celebrant, a friend, or a family member and can take place in various locations.
Celebrations of life offer a wonderful alternative, often held separately from cremation or burial. These gatherings can be less formal and emphasise sharing memories, music, food, and laughter—a true reflection of a life well lived. Imagine vibrant colours, cherished songs, and personal anecdotes taking centre stage.
Themed funerals are also on the rise. Every aspect, from the coffin to the dress code, can reflect an individual’s passions or personality. A funeral centred around a favourite film, a beloved hobby, or a cherished colour can serve as a memorable and meaningful tribute.
Eco-Conscious Choices
There are numerous eco-friendly funeral options for those who care deeply about the environment. Biodegradable coffins made from materials such as wicker, bamboo, or cardboard are popular choices. Natural burials in designated woodland areas further minimise environmental impact. Even cremation can be made greener, with many crematoria now utilising renewable energy sources. Resomation (water cremation) is a newer, more environmentally friendly alternative to traditional cremation that is gradually becoming available in the UK.
Personal Touches
Beyond the big decisions, the small, personal touches often make a funeral truly meaningful. This could include:
- Personalised music choices: Moving beyond traditional hymns to include their favourite songs.
- Unique readings or poems: Perhaps something written by the deceased or a piece with special meaning.
- Memory tables: Displaying photos and mementoes that tell their life story.
- Charitable donations: Asking for donations to a cause they supported instead of flowers.
- Interactive elements include releasing balloons or butterflies or planting a memorial tree.
Here in the Wealden area, the possibilities for alternative funerals are vast. It’s about moving beyond tradition and creating a farewell that genuinely reflects the unique life and personality of your loved one.
By exploring these options, you can create a meaningful and memorable tribute that honours their life in an authentic and personal way.
